Yep another one by me.

[EZ_TribalGeek]

I know everyones probably tired of hearing this kinda @#%$ from me, but this is the only way I can get it out. I don't know if I am asking for advice or if I just want to get it out. So if you have advice give it. If you just want to poke fun of me please don't. I know the jokes will be made, but maybe the request will work.
Right now my life is mine. I complain about it, but it does have it's good points. Unfortenetly the bad points are outnumbering the good.
Theres been alot of @#%$ going on where I live within my friends and family. Mostly centered around my bros gf. She just seems to cause problems. She is okay sometimes but nuts the rest of the time. Tonight my parents didn't want her staying over. The land lords where she was staying told the people if her car was there over night they would evict them so she can't stay there. My bro wanted her to stay at my place. I didn't really want her to, but I would let her if she had no place other to go. She has places she just dosen't want to stay there. My room mate dosen't like her due to the problems she causes so we told them no. So now I have a brother pissed off at me.
I have had health problems latley and I have missed alot of work and have had a hard time paying rent and bills. I don't like this. I hate my job and really need to find another one. The job search starts tomrrow or tuesday depending one what goes on with my doctor and parents tomrrow. So I got that one under controll.
I am pretty emotionally unstable, but no one sees it in me except for on here where I can be more open. I put on a show for my friends and familly. Unfortenetly the show is hurting me. I am pretty down most of the time, but not really fully depressed.
I am gonna talk to my mom tomrrow about moving back into the house. I know she will let me, but I don't know if I want to. I know I need to. It will help me be finacially stable for the time being. Atleast long enough to get some money saved up for reserves. It will help me be more emotionally stable to. Atleast I hope it will. I just don't want to bail on my friends. I don't want to have all the restrictions and have to deal with my dad, but I realize that I need to.
So maybe I can get my life turned around. Hopefully it will help. American by birth.
Southerner by the grace of God.

[EZ_Mrens]

You want us not to poke fun and you post this?

Quote:American by birth.
Southerner by the grace of God.


Must....resist....

[EZ_Swipey]

Having her stay at your place for any length of time is probably a violation of your lease. That is, no doubt, what the landlords who are threatening her previous hosts* with eviction based on.

Also, if your roommate doesnt want her in the place, that kind of keeps her out too.

Is she unemployed/unemployable and unable to rent her own place or something?



*I use the word host in both the hospitality and victim of a parasite sense here.

[EZ_TribalGeek]

She has a job. She just can't afford her own place. We can have people stay here just not for more than 5 days in a row. She isn't staying the night we already decided that.

Mren's I don't mind the jokes about the sig. I am just talking about people putting me down because I have problems.

Double Sig. --Gyorg Edited by: Gyorg at: 11/17/03 5:54 am

[Kaielen]

Tribal...noone's going to make fun of you here for your problems.

Haven't you read our posts? We're all just as @#%$ up as you are!

Don't feel bad for one second about moving back in with your folks. It happens, man. Consider yourself responsible, wise, AND intelligent for knowing when to take a step back so that you can take two steps forward later. Come back to the game when you're ready. I recently decided to sell my house to my parents and move in with my sister because I couldn't afford it.

There's nothing wrong with asking for help.

[EZ_Talius]

Quote:I know she will let me, but I don't know if I want to. I know I need to. It will help me be finacially stable for the time being.

And you say you have problems? This is the most mature thing I've seen in my life. As much as it sucks, no one is going to think of less of you if you want to get a fresh start by moving back in with the parents. Provided you're actually hunting for better work and a more stable situation (which you obviously are from the tone of your post) then you're golden.

Having people conflicting problems is no good, but it sounds like you made the only choice you could. While I know it sucks because you figure it would be ok to do your brother a favour, the fact that your room-mate (who doesn't owe your brother blood relations guilt favours as you do) didn't want to makes your choice the right one.

In conclusion: Come north of the border and I'll take you out for a pint and some wings, eh?

[EZ_TribalGeek]

Might take me a while to get there so I think I'm gonna have to pass on it. American by birth.
Southerner by the grace of God.

[EZ_Talius]

You just turned down hospitality from a Canadian. Now, you're going to get a phone call, and in 7 days you'll die

[Kaielen]

Come on, Tribal. I'll come pick you up and we'll get shnockered in the land of the double language stop signs.

[Dragynphyre]

Hey, I can read both languages on those signs - take me with you!!

[EZ_Talius]

We have more than one language?
Weird...

[EZ_TribalGeek]

Hey if you want to come to Texas and then drive me to canda by all means I will go. Trust me I want to meet alot of the people on here and go drinkin with me. Besides I heared canda has some pretty damn good beer. Just as long as someone gets me some irish cream or irish whiskey I will drink about anything. American by birth.
Southerner by the grace of God.

[Kaielen]

Be better in spring or summer. We'll pick up a couple single Safehouse chicks, drop the top, and head off to see the canuckleheads.

Any volunteers?

[EZ_TribalGeek]

Well you know I am in but we definetly need some single safehouse chicks to go with. Summer would be better for me. By then I should have some vacation time stored up at work. American by birth.
Southerner by the grace of God.